Tuesday Maddie was diagnosed with Hypo-sensitive Sensory Processing Disorder (SPD)
It's always overwhelming to receive a definitive diagnosis even when you suspect there's a problem.
Now I'm in research mode to find out and understand exactly what Maddie's daily life is really like, and how we can help her.
We are starting therapy next week with an Occupational Therapist.
We will be using Integrated Listening Systems (or music therapy) as our main source of treatment.
I had NO IDEA the signs/symptoms of this disorder, but now that we have the information we do, it's like the puzzle pieces are all fitting together.
Our first puzzle piece came when she was just an infant.
If I was holding her, and I would laugh really loud, Maddie would instantly cry (and this was a baby that hardly ever cried)
She still hates loud noises.
Then I started noticing some "quirks"
She repeated tasks over and over and over.
She would stack these cups for as long as 30 minutes at a time...all the time.
And then I would notice things and would think, "hmmm, not sure that's normal."
On this particular day she had four things: the fireman's hat, the necklace, the purse, and a bracelet.
Instead of pretending to be a fireman like most kids, she would just put on the necklace, put on the hat, put on the purse, and put on the bracelet.
Then, she would take off the bracelet, take off the purse, take off the hat, and take off the necklace.
She repeated that over and over for probably 15 times in a row.
Then I began noticing how she loves to line things up.
Another strange symptom is she has to smell everything.
She also loves to lick strange things.
But the main symptom that had us investigating the problem is her spinning.
She always spins and spins and spins and spins and never ever gets dizzy.
I say she's "literally unwinding" but it was her speech therapist that noticed it one day after a session.
She knew it was a red flag and suggested we check into it.
I'm so glad we did!!
Although it seems like these little quirks are just part of her personality,
the vestibular system in our brains is the only system fully developed at the time of birth.
It's the foundation for all other developing systems and it literally affects everything.
Handwriting, gross motor bilateral movements, fine motor, speech, etc.
Our issues with potty training can be associated with this as well.
The good news is, it can all be helped with therapy and once Maddie is regulated, we'll be able to work on these areas she's falling behind.
She's so amazing, and I'm in awe of her even more now that I realize she's been coping with this and self-regulating for 5 years now.
I'm excited that we now have a plan to hopefully make life a little easier for her, and I'm trying not to dwell on the fact it's taken this long to get started!
It turns out that Sensory Processing Disorder is really fairly common (estimated 1 in 20 children)
*I think it's important if you see some of these items on the list (Maddie has several indicators) and wonder about a child in your life and know that these things are interrupting quality of life, it's worth checking into.*
On the other hand, sometimes it's these funny, quirky things that make kids... kids and we celebrate their individuality and uniqueness.
It's always a balance, but if you are like me and you see things that make you tilt your head and wonder, it's worth investigating!!
As we navigate these new waters, hopefully there will be more knowledge and understanding to share and pass on.