I Heart Baby Showers!

Yesterday I had the honor of co-hosting a baby shower for my good friend.  It was so much fun, especially since it was for a little girl, Kamrin Ann!  Here's some pics...

I think this lucky little girl will have a new outfit to try on every three hours of her first few months of life!  All of the little outfits she got were so precious!!
I had to contribute to the outfits as well!  This is what I made for her.

I'm giving myself the award for the most improved applique-er!!

It certainly helps that a pear is a MUCH easier shape then a reindeer! If you missed the reference, you can see my handiwork here.
Praying for Kamrin's safe arrival, and a quick and speedy delivery for her Momma!

Playing Reindeer Games and such...

Maddie has enjoyed our new reindeer puppets!  She likes to "help" me line them up, then she takes my finger and points to each one. : ) 

I decided to do some more research on teaching children with Down Syndrome using Montessori practices.  I found this case study on two girls with DS in Montessori schools.  I almost dismissed it when I realized it was written in 1974, but it was VERY interesting.  Some of the word choices are weird.  This was a time when they still referred to our babies as retarded, so I had to overlook that. (which I was kind of surprised how much that affected me...I mean, it's just a word, and in this context completely innocent, but I guess some words have been charged and carry more meaning than others.)
But the thesis of the paper?  Montessori environments enhanced both of the girls growth and development and expectations were raised in social and academic interactions.  Yay! Incidentally, in this particular case study, these girls were the first to ever attend a Montessori school.  I've realized some schools accept children with special needs and others don't.  It's a matter of finding the right one.
OK, so enough about that.  Here are some other pictures from the day...

As I was heading to bed last night, I looked at the Christmas tree and it looked so serene and beautiful. I had to capture the moment.

I love how you can see the "bare spots" where Maddie has re-arranged the ornaments! : )

From Drab to Fab

So, I haven't done Maddie's laundry in a while so all of her cute outfits are dirty.  This was the option I was left with yesterday morning.

I bought it at a consignment sale a while back.  I don't remember exactly how much I paid for it, but my rule with consigned clothes is no more than $5 per item.  I'm guessing I probably spent $2. 
It's OK. It's practical.  But it kind of speaks masculinity to me, and it seems stuck in the 80's.
So...I had an hour while Maddie watched Sesame Street and I did this!

 Aww, that's much better!  It's not perfect but it'll do.  You can't tell from far away, but my applique skills need a LOT of work!

HA! see what I mean!  I felt like a little schoolgirl desperately trying to color within the lines.  I just laughed when it was all done because it's such a mess!  Oh well, it will keep that deer on those overalls and that's really what I was going for : ) 
Despite the horrendous applique, I really like how it turned out.  Maybe I should forgo laundry more often!  Hey, I like that idea!

Fun with Reindeer and such...

So Monday Kara, our speech therapist, was out and she always has great ideas on things to do with Maddie.  She gave us this cute little song, Ten Little Reindeer Sung to the tune "Ten Little Indians".  I just couldn't help myself when I found these patterns at The Idea Room blog.  I made one reindeer for each finger to sing with our new song. Maddie loved it!

We also worked on some of our Montessori trays.

I love that little look of concentration and determination.  It may be a while before she's really ready to use the tongs effectively, but she enjoyed it and that's the goal for now.  It's a fine line sometimes to know when to push a little and when to patiently wait for her skills to catch up with her. For now I'm just introducing things to her and keeping it lighthearted and fun.  I have a feeling she will find the motivation within herself to push through any learning obstacles later on in life.  If these power struggles we've had with time outs is any indication, she has PLENTY of drive! (and for that I am so very grateful : ) 

Another New Christmas Tradition

I was inspired once again by Mari-Ann at Counting Coconuts.  On this post she explains that she wraps up 25 Christmas books and each night her little one opens one up to read.  I had a hard time finding 25, so I resorted to the library for most of the books.  It helped that I didn't start right on Dec. 1.  We began our new tradition a few nights ago, but so far it's been really fun.  We use it for our bed time book.  It helps with a smoother transition for bedtime.  Maddie is starting to get more and more excited about unwrapping her book each night.  I'll definitely be hitting after Christmas sales to bulk up our collection!

A Good Night's Sleep

It's amazing what a good night's sleep can do!  Maddie slept through the night Friday night, and I woke up Saturday morning feeling like a new person! : ) 
I took some Christmas pictures of Maddie and they turned out really cute.  Here are a few shots...

Good days and bad...

I can’t get motivated.  I’m so tired.  So very tired.  So tired of sleepless nights.  So tired of the monotonous mommy-chores.  So tired of correcting, re-directing, teaching, role-modeling.  I just want to collapse and cry. Cry out the pressure, the stress, the expectations.  Just cry it all out. 

 

Ecc. 7:3  “Crying is better than laughing.  It blotches the face but it scours the heart.”

I wanted to steep myself in this low like the peppermint tea leaves I soaked in boiling water last night.  Then I read this verse.  I had a good cry, and I kind of feel a little better.  I don’t mind steeping for a little longer though.  Many of you who know me wonder what alien has come and invaded my body.  I’m never down.  But today it feels right.   

  

I wonder if sometimes I need these hard days so I can be durable and firm.  When it comes to discipline, I have to admit I can be a softee.  Well, not today.  Maddie has been in time out only once in her 27 months of living and this morning she’s been in time out twice already.  (both times for crawling up on the table…even after a warning!)  I had no bad feelings about a good time out. 

I’m sure I’ll continue to cry all day.  I cried when Maddie was bawling because she didn’t want to go down for nap.  I cried when I watched a stupid interview on TV.  I cried when I looked around at the mess that surrounds me.  But my heart will be scoured and scrubbed and will hopefully come out polished and gleaming.  And my to-do list can wait for tomorrow. Sorry for the downer, but thanks for "listening".